Can you really stop a break up?

A potential break up that is about to happen can be stopped. A break up, however severe, can be healed if both parties are willing to cooperate.

Most break ups, anyway, ends in reunion. Break ups occur due to various reasons. It could be trivial or really serious. Soon after the break up, the parties realize their foolishness and decide to get back together. Sometimes, they do not know how to get back and leave the break up as it is unnecessarily.

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After a break up, take rest. That's keep a literal gap between you and your ex. Why? This is the cooling-off period. You come clear. Your head becomes clear. And your partner also thinks clearly.

Do not go criticize. Do not blame. These things will not allow you to get back your ex. Also put away anger and resentment. These negative feelings eat away your positive energy and make you attract more negative things in life.

It is natural after the break up, you want your ex back. Your ex also has the same feelings inside. This is not a real break up. The break up happened in the heat of the moment. Moreover, you have been so long together it is difficult to live without each other. You find out the real value of the other person only in the absence of the person.

Sometimes, the break up occurs due to boredom. Haven't your heard the saying that “Familiarity breeds contempt”. Everyone goes through this one time or other. The remedy is doing new things, renovating the relationship, visiting new places, doing new things together. Why not go on a tour? Why not take on that much-postponed hike?

Whatever be the reason behind the break up, you must learn your lessons from it. You should learn to correct yourself so that it doesn't recur.

Immediately after break up, if you are sure it is not a genuine break up, you might be tempted to approach your ex immediately about it. It is something to be avoided at any cost.

Even if your ex loves you, still take it easy. Keep a communication gap deliberately. Do not send emails or messages. If you did you will be seen as cheap personality in the eyes of your ex. Your ex may not understand your strong feelings. This period gives some space to both parties to clear their heads.

Once a brief non-communication period is over, if you are still having feelings for your ex, then keep casual contact. Send brief mails enquiring about welfare. Never refer to the break up. Just be friendly.
Once your ex also realizes that they miss you they may approach you. Now is the time to accept ex. Open up to him or her. Tell them how much you value the relationship.

Never take up the reasons of break up at this stage.

After a few days you may sit down and talk about how you both of you could get along from now on. You should be willing to forgive one another. That's how life goes for every one.

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